Welcome to the Young Widows and Widowers group ( 65 and under)
- You don't have to wait 3 months after your loss to attend our group
- We are early loss up to 2 years
- In person and virtual group
In person locations are on Long Island
Ages 65 and under and virtual for those who live far.
Widowhood is a club no one wants to be a part of, however we are lucky to have each other in our unluckiness. The friendships that are made here are priceless.
One of the many things I hated during my widowhood was I did not feel like I fit in with my friend group. They loved me and always included me, but they were all couples, and I was no longer a couple. It made me miss my husband more when I would be in their company. It made me feel more alone.
Even though I have a wonderful family and friends I still felt very alone.
I didn't know how to navigate through my grief. I didn't know any young widows like me who were raising their children solo.
I didn't want to date or go back to bar scenes I felt I was not in that place.
I felt like I didn't know where I belonged in society.
It's hard to meet people who understood what I was going through. Because I was young many people were looking to introduce me to someone that they knew who was also single. I just wasn't comfortable with that.
Wouldn't be nice to just speak to a group of people who totally understand your pain? No judgement just gets it.
I had no coping skills with my grief. My only experience with loss was my grandparents this was a totally different level of grief. Losing your person is so intense - you feel like you lose who you are as well.
Joining a support group, I had nothing to lose I already lost everything that I felt was most important to me.
It's important to not wait to join a group. It's best to join in the beginning of your loss, You will learn ways to navigate through holidays and things you just don't believe you can get thorough.
It's important to know that our support groups are evidence based that they actually help our members survive this. The thoughts we tell ourselves over and over during grief aren't always true.
It's important to know that our support groups are evidence based that they actually help our members survive. All our groups are facilitated by widows or widowers who were where you are now.
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20-30 year old
40 year old
50 year old
60-65 year old
groups for those with no children
groups for a loss of a child
Chat and Connect group (after bereavement)
Loss of spouse, partner, boyfriends, girlfriends, fiancé' with no children
Young adult group meets 2x a month (age 18 and over)
Teen group (ages 14-17) facilitated by a child psychologist.
New monthly support group for partner/spouse who survived suicide
In person and virtual
up to two years of loss (any longer would be a setback.)
I do not have groups or facilitators for over 65. ( try grief share)
Statistics show 2.5M people die in the U.S. annually leaving 5- 10 people behind to pick up the pieces.(sometimes more)
1.5M of them are children who lost a parent.
$75B in revenue is lost from companies that do not educate their staff about grief.
Posted by one of our members. A more recent photo of me after surviving breast cancer. Please go get your Mammo it can save your life.
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This was an excellent book describing how Trauma affects our bodies when we ruminate.
This book was so interesting. A Psychiatrist started documenting patients experiences of 45 years of his practice of people who died ad returned.
Based on Science however somethings were Biblical.
This book was about a young therapist who lost her mother and three years to the day her 26-year-old husband Lincoln collapsed on the same date and died.
Great read on how to help yourself through the heavy grief.
In The Four Agreements, bestselling author don Miguel Ruiz reveals the source of self-limiting beliefs that rob us of joy and create needless suffering. Based on ancient Toltec wisdom, The Four Agreements offer a powerful code of conduct that can rapidly transform our lives to a new experience of freedom, true happiness, and love.
Beautiful book about a woman who survived the hardship of the Holocaust
This book helped with all of the changes I had to endure with selling my home and moving.
A renowned grief expert and neuroscientist shares groundbreaking discoveries about what happens in our brain when we grieve, providing a new paradigm for understanding love, loss, and learning.
At forty-two, Kathryn Monaco-Douglas never expected to become a widow. In an instant, her world turned upside down, leaving her to navigate the grief of losing her husband while raising three children alone. As she faced the overwhelming challenges of widowhood, she quickly learned she was not the only one walking this lonely path-many others were widowed even younger.
In this heartfelt and empowering book, Kathryn shares her own story of survival, as well as the stories of other young widows and widowers she's met and counselled along the way. She reveals the emotional complexities of grief, the secondary losses that come with losing a spouse, and the resilience required to keep going when life feels impossible.
This was an excellent book describing how Trauma affects our bodies when we ruminate.
This book was so interesting. A Psychiatrist started documenting patients experiences of 45 years of his practice of people who died ad returned.
Based on Science however somethings were Biblical.
This book was about a young therapist who lost her mother and three years to the day her 26-year-old husband Lincoln collapsed on the same date and died.
Great read on how to help yourself through the heavy grief.
In The Four Agreements, bestselling author don Miguel Ruiz reveals the source of self-limiting beliefs that rob us of joy and create needless suffering. Based on ancient Toltec wisdom, The Four Agreements offer a powerful code of conduct that can rapidly transform our lives to a new experience of freedom, true happiness, and love.
Beautiful book about a woman who survived the hardship of the Holocaust
This book helped with all of the changes I had to endure with selling my home and moving.
A renowned grief expert and neuroscientist shares groundbreaking discoveries about what happens in our brain when we grieve, providing a new paradigm for understanding love, loss, and learning.
I did not like what was available for me when I lost my husband. I have dedicated many years of volunteering to helping others with loss and grief.
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