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A welcoming space for widows & widowers facing Loss earlier than expected

A welcoming space for widows & widowers facing Loss earlier than expected A welcoming space for widows & widowers facing Loss earlier than expected A welcoming space for widows & widowers facing Loss earlier than expected
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My story

I became a widow far earlier than I ever imagined, raising three children while learning how to survive loss and reenter the world in a body and heart forever changed. Through grief, I discovered that healing didn't mean forgetting- It meant carrying love forward in new ways. Widowed not Alone grew from that truth.

In person groups

In person locations are on Long Island.

In person groups run in Fall, Winter and Spring

no group over the summer months..

 locations are 

2 in Garden City, 

Point Look- out, 

Dix Hills,

 Deer Park, 

Bohemia,

  Patchogue,

Virtual

Our current focus is supporting widowed adults 65 and under, where life transitions, careers and fam
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Support & Community

 A nonprofit -base support group on

 Long Island  for young widows/widowers seeking connection, understanding of  who they are now.

The Introduction

Support group

how our groups become friends for life

https://youtu.be/4DmfrxN_sSc?si=Yj0ZGru3qq62GzxK

The interview

Check out this great video by Cha who later unfortunately became a widow herself

Contact Us

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Required Information


Enter the following in message box:


  • Name
  • Age (65 and under only) 
  • Cell number
  • Email
  • Date of Loss
  • Children if  any- ages
  • Don't forget your phone number



We are presently working on more locations

call for all our locations all over the Island

(631) 647-5675

Connect With Us

The groups we offer

Widowednotalone

  •  Public Face book page (so you can find us)
  •  Private Face book page (to protect your privacy) after the 8-week group
  •  Instagram account under Widowednotalone
  •  Networking group (handymen, electricians, painters, etc.) after 8 weeks support group
  •  Social group (bereavement members only) after 8 week support group
  •  Private group for those who loss their spouse from suicide
  •  Private group for those with no children 




3 Seasons - Fall, Winter & Spring Groups separated by age

20–30-year-olds

40-year-olds

50-year-olds

60–65-year-olds

groups for those with no children

group for a loss of a child

Chat and Connect group (after bereavement) Rockville Center and Dix Hills after the first year with us.

Loss of spouse, partner, boyfriends, girlfriends, fiancé' with no children

Young adult  group who lost a parent  meets 2x a month (age 18 and over)

Teen group (ages 14-17) facilitated by a child psychologist. winter only

 up to two years after loss (any longer would be a setback if you really need it please call)

I do not have groups or facilitators for over 65. (try grief share) We are a younger group that was what was missing.

Non-denominational

no judgement



  • Training facilitators 
  • Conducting speaking engagements, including funeral homes, libraries, houses of worship, conferences and workshops.





About Young Widows/Widowers support group

 a nonfiction story of loss, motherhood, survival and creating purpose after profound grief.   Speaking, storytelling and honest conversation that bring visibility to grief,resilience,and women's strength.

book can be found on Amazon

https://a.co/d/0fBp1rHU

R.I.P Kim Gatto

because I Lived it is a true story of becoming a widow too young raising children through grief and discovering how purpose can rise from pain. written for anyone who has loved deeply, lost profoundly, or supported someone through grief. this book offers compassion, truth, and hope without platitudes.

                                                       RIP Kim Gatto                                                                                                                                     

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